America is not the America that most of us have been accustomed to.  Christian Nationalism and Fascist ideas and propaganda are on the rise.  Change rarely comes rapidly; it comes gradually.  Don’t be a frog-in-the-frying-pan.  Rely on reason and not propaganda, fear, and ignorance.  Inform yourself against Project 2025 and Trump Republican legislations.    Here are some ideas.

1.  Don’t rely on wishful thinking.  The world is the way the world is; accept it as it is, not as you would want it to be.  Don’t lie to yourself or others.
2. Don’t fall for misinformation regardless of what ‘side’ you find it on.
3. Make a decision to leave or stay.  Leaving has its own costs and benefits, but staying does as well.  Be responsible for what you decide. 
4. If you stay, join groups such as the ACLU, or other groups that are fighting for fair and charitable legislation and action.  Joining a group strengthens the group and yourself.
5. Personal decisions make a difference.  Do not support the billionaires that support Republican policies such as they are.  Cancel Amazon, decide to use X and Facebook to disseminate true information, or simply quit using the services.  Support small businesses, grow your own food.
6. Confront obvious lies and misinformation when you see it or hear it.  Don’t let it slide.  Be courteous but firm.
7. Help people that are under attack.
8. Have two exit plans: one long term and one short term.
9. Use time and energy to be as happy as you can be.  This is important.
10. Don’t forget: you are not alone.